
I can't deny it... even if I wanted to. I can remember when I first started liking girls. I was 10 or 11 and I attended Charles P. Caldwell -a pretty well known grammar school nestled on Chicago's southside (off 87th and Cregier to be exact). There were a few honeys at my school, most of them were even in my actual classroom at the time. There was
grown & sexy looking
Carla Neely, we had
lil' cute ass looking
Jori Ross, and then there was the "end-all beat-all" for me and so many other dudes on the entire southside of Chicago -tha
fine ass & sexually attractive -
Skye Thomas.Now there's one thing that all these young tenders had in common with one another... they were ALL
"Light-skinned Redbone Beauties." The irony here is... the 3 baddest chicks in school would never be anything more to me than just friends. I wound up dating a dark-skinned, pretty lips, pretty eyes, fresh 2 def, thick in the thighs (even @ that age), lil' ole-lil' ole named Rhemeecka Johnson -and yet I had all 3 redbones pegged as the measuring stick to what I thought
"fine" truly was and what I ultimately was looking for in a girl.
I can remember very vividly ..the women of those times in entertainment that I really had a thing for. In music there was (all of whom I had pictures on my wall by the way)-
Vanity, Shelia E., Appolonia & Lisa-Lisa. On TV it was all about
Lisa Bonet', Jasmine Guy, Karyn Parsons (Hilary on Fresh Prince),
Linda Carter (bka Wonder Woman) and last but definately not least... yall might think I'm buggin on this one but Moms used to watch "Days of our Lives" and there was this chick named
Hope (Kristian Alfonso).... oooooweeeee! Then of course.. I can't forget Porn -even though I was waaaaay to young to be watching- I can recall this Latin bombshell whose name definately rings bells as one of the all-time greats... I'm talkin bout none other than
"Vanessa Del Rio." Every last one of these females were fine as hell, light-skinned, long flowing hair and diversely mixed. These were my own personal images of what I thought pretty was.
Those images definately stayed with me... imprinted in my mind I carried it with me to high school and then onto college. Looking back now I think that my overall "dating -track record- ratio" is probably somethin like 70/30 okay ..okay maybe 80/20 in favor of the
"Redbones." Now before my beautiful brown and dark-skinned sistas started letting loose on me and sending me hate mail let me just say ...I have dated all shades, shapes and sizes (well not too big.. lol) -the point is I don't think its necesarily an issue of discrimination. If it is infact an issue of discrimination then it is a condition that has been conditioned. Ladies... I want yall to peep this little statistic that I came across while researching my condition for this
"Moulin Rouge" feature article -A study done at the University of Toronto showed that men of all races subconsciously preferred lighter women, and women of all races preferred darker men. They determined that aesthetic preferences reflected moral preferences…because men equated lighter skinned women with innocence and purity, and women equated d

arker skinned men with virility and mystery.
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dero Dawson